You need to have a reference to the other forms from the form that invokes the action.
One way is to expose the ListView as a property on the Form itself and the just reference it via the Form
From Form1
private void button4_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
Form2Instance.MyListView.Items.RemoveAt(0);
}
In Form2 add the following wrapper to expose the original listView
public ListView MyListView{get{return this.ListView1;}}
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